(( moore ))

I'm so sorry you are hurting.

You just simply aren't at all responsible for his actions. It was his choice to act on his thoughts.

It's wonderful that you want him to get better and be okay. The medical professionals will take good care of him and when he is feeling better he will assume responsibility for his care, physical and emotional.

The best thing you can do for him is to get help with your feelings so you can be strong for you.

I hope you'll let us know how he and you are doing.