yeah, thank you very much Healing. Good answer, I will have to tell him some of that stuff when he asks.
MJ you are correct, I am learning to write things instead of talking. I freeze quite often and can't talk. It takes me a little while to remember I can write, but then I do and it is helpful.

I just don't like talking about every little thing we discuss in T with him, and especially when he demands to know. The T has client confidentiality rules and I can I follow those if I so choose. She doesn't tell anyone what we discuss and I can choose to do the same. That is one of the answers she has given me to tell him. and she has told him to STOP IT, JUST STOP ALREADY. I will tell him what I feel like telling him when he needs to know I will tell him what I need him to know. He didn't like that answer but hey life is full of things we don't like.