Part of life, post divorce, still pangs a little around what would be another anniversary. This coming weekend. Time of recognizing, the bad with good, recognizing years(12), and sorry it had to happen. Like I tell my kids in punishment, you knew the consequences of your behavior, even with written notice, i still gave that one last verbal notice to reconsider what you are doing before consequence handed down(middle son tonight lost three days computer privileges)...
I made a life decision based on intolerance to mistreatment, with ample warnings and opportunities, pleas, etc....
Stop blaming my mom, and accept it! Took two to tango yes, but I gave every warning, chance, option, etc.
Anger management, by court order? Hmphhh...
Where was that, 5,6,7,8 years ago?
Add: don't think it was a light/easy choice. Think it's been easy? Think I like hearing such glib accounts of completely annihilating my children, so to speak, over broken home blah blah?
Yeah, my life has had various areas of improvement. But I'll never view people the same ever again.
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