He has such a high sex drive, he has to have this, or something else. That something else doesn't involve me, but what he wants from me and the something else are equally horrible. Although most of the time I hate doing what he wants to the point where i'd rather he do something else, but then again, at least with this, i'm involved. He has already given up a lot that he greatly desires for me. We are trying to compromise, but i really really hate doing this. And he really really needs it at least once in a while. I am against it completely and totally other than understanding how badly he wants it, and not knowing what else to do. It almost caused a divorce. Who should budge?