[quote=Zwangsstörung;3757391]I disagreed with ace333 at first, but after some thought, I realised I was just taking it personally, focusing on my past, ... but actually, I'm leaning more towards what ace333 said: ditching him and moving on. Things aren't looking good on his side. My only defense, in a nut-shell, was that we're not all out to play and use, ... some of us do simply make stupid mistakes. I'm trying not to be cynical, ...

don't get me wrong im not saying that it's completely impossible for something to happen between them now or in the future. but the fact that its been so long and other gf's are/have been involved makes me think that chances are very low...but its not impossible. but for the time being i feel like this person would really benifit from blocking this person out of thier life for the time being, to show the guy really what they are missing and that she doesn't need them to be happy or live. she has her own life to live with or without this person