Dear Desperado,YOU are not "one huge mess"!! You are a valuable, human being whose not perfect! Just like everyone else!
You've GOT to care!! I care about you! Just because. . .you are.
You exist. Perhaps you are here to change someone's life, or be influential in some other way. Sometimes our purpose is vague to us. But we have to clear the obstacles in our path (that takes energy & hard work) & I for one am here to help you along. Amazingly, it won't be just 2 of us! But this entire community cares - they care about y o u. How fortunate are we??!!!