
Hooo-llyyy... crap. That's heavy. Leave him and who cares if you know his family or whatever. You're not not married to his family. Get out while you still can! BE FREEEEEE.
This comes from a guy who also has pretty bad OCD and has done all his life. (for the record, I can't see me ever treating a woman like that) I understand he may have issues, but he needs to get help, and you need to be released. Show dem curves! Haha. But yeh, ... seriously, ... not healthy for you to be in that relationship.
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{ Kein Teufel }
Translation: Not a devil
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