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Old May 19, 2014, 07:34 AM
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Awww bless. You're not a bad friend or person or whatever. Sounds like a perfectly normal, human thing to feel! I'm fairly sure that comment would also hurt me, if I had boobies. xD No idea what to suggest, ... if it were me, I'd keep my distance, so I could let go. It's not gonna be healthy for you to have all these feelings for him and nothing you can do about it. Although, ...you could try to focus on someone else. Has helped me in the past, ... even if it wasn't overly real, it helped to subdue the real feelings. (totally not saying you should string some poor guy along) If it's any consolation, big boobs are overrated. haha

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Originally Posted by trying2survive View Post
you just gotta tell him the truth about your feelings..stop holding back you are only hurting yourself..the only way off the rollercoaster is to get it out in the air

you guys are together all the time..maybe you guys could just try it..IMHO your bf/gf should be your best friend anyways...so......let him know the truth and hope for the best, either way you will feel better
There is that, ... only you could decide what to do. You'd probably always be thinking you're not good enough or something, though, ... could be damaging to you and the relationship. On the end hand, telling him could make the friendship wobble, ... >.< No easy way out of that situation, I'm guessing. :\
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