we basically have in almost everyway possible....i don't get it...is she that dumb...or just that crazy stalkerish? im mean if it was me, the second someone called me anything and said its not going to happen, i remove you from my radar completely, this is like encouraging her more and more lol i don't get it. when i see i want to grab her and shake her violently and " say nobody wants you around how do you not get this " lol