I'm finding myself posting notes and sending messages on this forum and feeling hurt/confused when I don't get a reply. My mind is having an argument with itself. One part says, "You are falling back on old patterns. There could be all sorts of reasons why you haven't had a reply. This is not your fault." The other part answers, "I've said something to offend the other person, so that's why they haven't answered me. I'm a horrible person. It's all my fault that they haven't answered me."
I am having transference issues here, on PC. And I don't even know any of you in person!
Sigh.
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