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Does the average female get turned on by the male body? I don't. Does that mean I'm lesbian?
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I think women tend to be way less visual than men when it comes to being aroused. That's why so many men love looking at nudie mags and watching porn while most women aren't interested. In fact, a lot of us are grossed out by it. In general, I don't find the naked male body a sexual turn-on. I actually think that, from an aesthetic perspective, the naked female body is more beautiful. That doesn't mean I'm a lesbian, though. I may think a woman is beautiful, but I don't fall in love with women and I don't want to have sex with them.
I have to have strong feelings for a man before I want to see him naked. That's just the way I am. I don't find a naked male body (specifically the naughty bits) all that appealing unless I'm falling in love with the guy. So, I can be attracted to a man (when he has his clothes on), but I don't want to see him naked until I'm ready. Seeing a strange man's nether-regions is not a turn-on for me. In fact, it's a turn-off.
As for your question about whether or not a 12 year-old boy would be getting turned on by female nakedness -- ABSOLUTELY. 12 isn't all that young. I know you probably still think of your son as a little boy, but he's probably going through puberty. Pubescent boys have lots of hormones raging through their bodies. They tend to get turned on A LOT... and the male of our species tends to be very visual in their sexual attraction.
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