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Old May 19, 2014, 10:11 PM
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Originally Posted by wyss View Post
THANK YOU. This is just such good advice - and certainly hits home. You are right, he is probably so secure that he doesn't feel a chat is necessary each day. He'd rather have quality over quantity. I'll just continue to keep myself busy and I will work on not obsessing (when I do obsess, it will be on here and not to him so that I don't add more stress).
Not just work on keeping busy, to not worry if feelings change. Appreciate the fact, he's not clingy, etc. isn't life grande, to at your own leisure, log in here, read a.book, click on Netflix, etc?
Two independent, people, can create an 'inter-dependent' relationship. Perhaps that's where he's at, in life.

If you don't mind my asking, is there an age difference? I only wonder, as being used to may/Dec relationships, have a finer appreciation, to be able to help you, reach that secure spot, if my hunch be correct?



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