For me personally, I only respond to threads where I know something about the issue (telling T about transference, narc mother, etc.) and tend to read through but not answer most of the threads on here.

I'm sorry you feel like you aren't heard or appreciated on here, but know it isn't the case. There's a whole variety of reasons why sometimes your threads aren't "hot topics" or answered, and it's all dependent on different people's online times and how they're coping. It has nothing to do with you as a person, I swear.