This what i have written to T. Please i don't want any comments about it but if you feel you must I will read them.

"When I was 13 and experimenting with makeup my brother called me a *****.

When I was pregnant at 15 and wouldn't tell my mother who the father was she thought I didn't know. I remember the word "slut" being used several times.

Walking down from a boyfriends flat his grand mother stood and called me a slut, ***** and *****.

When my marriage broke up my ex suggested I work as prostitute.
I am thinking this all i am good for"