Hello and welcome to Pych Central. I am very sorry that you are suffering from this loss at this time. Frankly I feel that you did the right thing and stopped the relationship, before you got intertwined into all of the things your friend obviously needs help with from a professional. I hope you feel like you can move on soon, and find someone that is more reasonable and rational than the last person. Dont take you own needs for granted for someone that needs help themselves. Take care and good day. Soidhonia