First, he should be giving you his undivided attention. IMO, you shouldn't even know he owns a cell phone when you're in the room together. You're paying for his undivided attention. The cell phone should never even be brought out.

The hour is yours, he shouldn't be interrupting it for others. Checking texts is not ok.

Second, no, my lady doesn't really ask that many questions. Mostly she lets me just say what I'm thinking. Sometimes at the end she'll add her thoughts. For awhile, I wondered what the point was too... but then like, last time, we got into some stuff and she was more helpful. I think with me, I know all the answers... so the point is getting into things that I don't know the answers to. Which is weird for me because I always have an answer. But last time I was lost. Zero idea. So she filled in the blanks. It was weird. I'm never completely blank like that. But I had no clue. And when she filled in the blank, I actually accepted what she had to say because it seemed true. Typically, I reject her input because I figure she doesn't get it. Or has an agenda, or whatever. But her input made sense, so I accepted it.