Hi-

I am in a relationship in which this man refuses to tell a female "friend" we are dating. Why? The woman's som knows as I have met the son at bf's house a few times. She is the only person he will not mention me to. On top of this, he guards his cell phone. If there is nothing to hide why hide nothing? SInce this cause trouble in the past...T said perhaps we can have an open phone policy. Bf does not like this as he wants some privacy. This only makes me more suspicious as he is a KNOWN liar. SO the other day his phone was blinking, and I went over to it and it said "battery low". I did push a couple of buttons and saw 2 texts from the female friend whom cannot know about me. When I asked him how she was the next day, over the phone, he freaked out. He hates that I snope on him. I hate that he lies to me/or whatever is going on. I told him If I wanted to go through his phone, I would and he would never know it. I would do it while he was asleep. I do not do this. I really do not care that they text or he texts w/ anyone else, but just be honest. I do not want to see the texts. This time around, we have to be honest with each other , which is what caused the ruination of the first relationship.

He has refused to communicated w/ me for 6 days....yes, I can see how much he really LOVES me.

He refuses to go to T, and he needs it for his anger issues.

Any opinions would be appreciated. Thanks!