just to save me some time, and typing, I have provided a link to kinda, 'my story' on how I lost my children if any of you care to read it.....
http://suicideforum.com/showthread.php?t=24741

Now, since all that, I have remarried, and it been 4 yrs. now, and things were great in the beginning, Ive hit a real slump with my depression, and cant seem to get out of it, he has said to me last friday...I have 30 days to shape up basically, and start helping him around the house, start getting errands done, which, I agree I should do, but, he gave me a deadline, and said if not then, he's leaving me!!!! Just like that, and yet, I dont know what to do, I cant just snap too....please help....really struggling here....thanks..Misfits.......dont want to fail at this marriage....