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Originally Posted by kawaiigurl1981
He is married and I have agreed to wait on him to get a divorce. That is the source of my suffering. That I have to come to work on Monday after not having seen him all weekend and hear about the outings his family has been on. Every Monday I feel hurt, rejected, and unwanted...
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Maybe find a relationship, another that you also
agree to be in, where you don't put yourself in such a sucky situation.
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I want his recongnition for bearing this for him.
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I think there is probably enough suffering in this situation to go around.You likely won't get any special recognition, treatment, or congratulations for this.
Actually, and I hate to be the bearer of bad news [and I kinda hope I'm wrong cause it's not what you want to hear]... but I've seen this play out numerous times. The way you write of your relationship indicates that you may not actually be awarded any kind of lasting stability with this man, let alone a ring of your own, for your efforts.
I feel for you; I have seen someone close to me go through this marry-go-round, and it sucks.