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Originally Posted by JosieTheGirl
Maybe find a relationship, another that you also agree to be in, where you don't put yourself in such a sucky situation.
I think there is probably enough suffering in this situation to go around.You likely won't get any special recognition, treatment, or congratulations for this.
Actually, and I hate to be the bearer of bad news [and I kinda hope I'm wrong cause it's not what you want to hear]... but I've seen this play out numerous times. The way you write of your relationship indicates that you may not actually be awarded any kind of lasting stability with this man, let alone a ring of your own, for your efforts.
I feel for you; I have seen someone close to me go through this marry-go-round, and it sucks.
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In this you have a point. No one in this situation is happy, everyone is just bearing and tolerating it. He is not happy, she is not happy, the children are not happy, I am not happy. Maybe the pets are happy I am not sure. They are on the road to divorce and are planning it. But the whole thing sucks and I guess I am being very self centered to think my suffering should earn me a pat on the head. No one is giving him a pat on the head. I am not looking for a ring because I don't need a ring to legitimize the love I have for a person.