Just yesterday my husband told me that he needs to start mowing the lawn for his mom (who lives 40 miles away) because she lives alone. He and his brother have shared the responsibility in the past and he spends a LOT of time at his mom's anyway. His brother just had knee surgery so my husband will have to do more this summer. This has been a problem with us in the past and has included a lot of things that he NEEDS to go to his mom's house for to help her out. (Shoveling in the winter, cleaning out the barn, going to the tax man with her, etc.) He will help her with anything. When I've brought it up in the past about how it feels like he puts her first, he either doesn't say anything, or he says that that's just how it is. I have asked him to have a conversation with his mom about possibly hiring someone in town to do her mowing and shoveling and he won't do it. Yesterday when I told him that it's not normal to put his mom first and that it feels like that's what he's doing his response was, "Sorry." What should I do? I feel like I'm pulling away from him!