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Originally Posted by kawaiigurl1981
I don't know why I bother posting here, you all have got to be the most judgmental people I have ever come across. Yes I am breaking a huge social taboo by being with a married man, he said as far as he was concerned his marriage was over and I was who he wanted to be with and I took him at his word. Clearly you people are so mired in social convention you cannot see beyond that. I will know better than to come to this forum for support on suggestions. How would your answers have been different if I lied and said he was my husband ?
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Just because people don't respond the way you want them to, does not make them judgmental, I assume this rant above is mainly directed at me as I'm the last poster to respond...(?)
I was not judging you, read my post again, where have I made judgemental remarks, or insulted you or anything untoward? Where?
Nowhere, that's where.
I simply pointed out that you demanding to be praised for martyrdom has probably made him think about how his wife deserves his sympathy... I simply pointed out that logically, she is the "victim" here, and you are a willing party. I NEVER said nor implied this makes you a bad person.
The fact that you felt the need to lash out here when you didn't get the desired response speaks volumes, your bf probably doesnt want to talk about feelings, because he's trying to avoid the wrath you unleash when you receive an undesirable response, or maybe he's put off by the fact that you think you deserve praise for being with him.
I deserve praise for replying to you in a civil manner after you insulted us by calling us judgmental.
