I agree with Gaylegg. Let go for your own good. I would also add that you absolutely resist the temptation to update yourself on the details of their lives. Don't call, check out their facebook pages, talk to friends about them--nothing! The first two weeks will be the toughest. Trust me, it will. BUT stick it out, and it will get easier. I've found that the longer it takes us to disconnect from old relationships, the longer it takes us to completely heal from them. How do you know when you're over it? When you find yourself genuinely wanting what's best for them in this life. Good luck!