I know it can be frustrating sitting there wanting to talk, and no words coming out. Last session I had a mini fit, my t was looking for answers, and I yelled a bit, I said " what do you want from me? What do you want me to do? You fix it!!!!!! And in the sweetest voice, which pissed me off more, she said, its not black or white, im not here to hand you answers, or put bandaids over stuff, we are here to figure it out together as a team.