Specialists but scheduled by hospital so we were seeing them within a week of discharge. Not my health so I had to stay. I do leave after 30 minutes- even with specialists if it is for me (hence I rarely bother even trying to see mds) but I agree it is the sick person's choice. I find it disrespectful and arrogant of them.

Even though I offered, it did not seem as though she trusted me to remove a bunch of staples nor to administer chemotherapy. It doesn't look that hard - I am certain I could do it.(I have removed staples and stitches from me and my pets and I have removed my own casts before so it is not like I have no experience).