That was so rude! My grandmother died last night and we were extremely close [but she had alzheimer's so that wasn't a big help either,] but my other grandmother died 3 years ago and i still think about and I cry somethimes. No, you are not over-reacting you're doing nothing wrong either. You should try finding a better cousellor and try to report that one. Ew that was a rude comment, I'd be upset with it too.