You know folks I think a key ingrediant here is vulnerability. For most the bliss available via a sexual union is harnessed to one's capacity to surrender. Please note this is not a submission induced surrender more a total expression of being safe type surrender. Post rape/sexual abuse/abuse it can be very difficult to achieve that safe place. If the the victim [possible the perpetraitor too] has not been to bliss prior then it can all seem like a lot of hype and they might not even feel inclined to seek it, heavens knows they are not likely to encounter it without a sense of total well being.

While recovery is available, a specific criteria perhaps is needed to sustain the venture. Pressure to perform is not within the parameters of that criteria. Unconditional love may well be a prerequisite whether it comes from self or other.

Evident here is that one size doesn't fit all. The cross fertilization of thought is though of benefit to all.

Love and healing is available when we seek it.
Regards Frances.