just to add a little more infor, my bf completely on his own has said he's not looking forward to this weekend away for multiple reasons. hes going to get sunburnt, he said he doesn't want to get tore up, whihc is the reason practically all the other guys are going, its going to be 20 people on a 10 person boat so he'll have to sleep on the floor, and he thinks im going to be crazy and keeps asking what i'm going to do with him not around, he's a little co dependant as well. i explained nothing exciting, i don't drink much and never have done drugs but my friends invited me to go to a basball game and a bar after...which he doesn't like when i go to bars without him ( he thinks im going to find some other whose better, whihc isn't true i just want to be with him) so i guess the fears are running on both sides