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Are you able to talk to her about this, explain that her pleasure is very important to you but you would like to mix things up from time to time. I get that the ability for her to receive the stimulation that she wants is important but are there other ways to add spontaneity without sacrificing her proper stimulation?
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“If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. ... We need not wait to see what others do.” Gandhi
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