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Originally Posted by hankster
These are just FEEEEEEELINGS. You dont have to act on them. You can explore them. I would lay money they are not about this particular gf of his. If you found another cute t, you would be likely to have the same feelings, no? Why start all over again just to get to this point again? If you feel hostile towards this gf, why not express it? When my t was in Europe with a gf, the news reported that floods there uncovered a 400 year old artifact. When he returned, i "informed" him that photos of his gf (the 400 yr old artifact) were all over the news. Ha ha. Just talk about it. Its really not about him. And he knows it.
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Well I don't know about that. Like I said, my T and I click on a very "different" level. He's said I'm "special" and "unique" and that it takes a certain type of person to know how to handle me. He's made some comments to me before about needing someone to accept me as I am, with all of the challenges that come with me. Certain things. I dunno, from my stupid stalking, I have found that his girlfriend said some of the same things about him on her page. The things he does for her is the same things he says I need.
Sometimes I think it IS about him, and the girlfriend situation didn't help. I didn't think he had one, let alone this young. She still gets her ******* period (yes, she wrote this on her page as well, along with how he rubs her feet and gives her a heating blanket...all things he has said to me that I need when I'm on MY period).
I don't think I can admit to my finding this information. I feel that it's too inappropriate, and that *I* have crossed a line!
I do have to say though your comment about the 400 year old artifact made me laugh this morning. That's a first so far today.
