So on Friday we having discussion and argument back n forth from one to the other with husband of almost 20. Within that he starts telling me what we need to do to trust each other again; and that is, when ever one of us leaves and we say bye we need to say I love you I trust you. He continues saying we do this exercise everyday and you watch in 2 or 3 month you will trust me again. I could tell you all the things I said in response, but basically I felt like he was trying to manipulate and control me. I'm curious if you can give me your thoughts on this? Thanks so much!