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Old May 21, 2014, 01:28 PM
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Originally Posted by winenot3 View Post
I think he MIGHT have supervision on me, but I'm not entirely sure. He made sure to give me a diagnosis recently and gave me a little test to do. He normally doesn't do that. And at the end of the session I saw him faxing something to someone and I swore it had my name on it. Again, just speculation. Who knows?

It does sound concerning and questionable, now that I think about it. Again, I don't think he would ever do anything, given his gorgeous hot and young girlfriend. (not to say that men don't cheat all the time...cause they do!)

Still. I'm not sure even then if he's said anything that danger zone quite yet. And you really think they would appear with someone else, and that they aren't just because I simply like him and who he is? I'm sure it's easy to brush off as transference and nothing more, but I feel so strongly about him, sometimes I think it HAS to be more than just that. I'm sure I sound naive right now, but oh well. :-/
Transference is just as powerful as real life. So how strong it is isn't an indicator of whether it's transference or not. The behaviors and thoughts you have surrounding it are what make me think it's transference. The obsession and looking up information are all normal for transference.

So yes, I do think it would reappear.

And no, I don't think it's quite over that line yet. But it's awfully close, too close for comfort, IMO.
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