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Originally Posted by 1914sierra
Has he actually said or done anything specific that leads you to believe his feelings for you are less than professional? You gut feeling isn't really a good indication as this all gets wrapped up in transference, etc., and you do seem to be rather overly obsessed with him. Unless I've missed it, you haven't ever mentioned anything specific he has done. Him just saying he cares for you, telling you that you are an attractive person, and that you are intelligent don't really reek of an attraction to you other than professionally; those could just be pretty standard compliments depending on context.
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You know what? Maybe you're right. Maybe I'm reaching, and he doesn't feel that way about me whatsoever.
It's a moot point anyway, right? This girlfriend exists, therefore nothing would even happen anyway, even with me not being a patient. And I am obsessed with him. I can fully admit that. There's nothing I won't own up to here. It's just a matter of me choosing to still see him or not, really, based on my feelings...not his.