being "overweight" doesn't mean you are unhealthy. who cares if she has gained some weight. it's none of your concern. just because you put on a few pounds doesn't mean "your letting go of yourself" I consider myself somewhat chubby. I am starting to fall inlove with my body, and not let what others think get to me. It doesn't matter. weight doesn't define your beauty, or who you are as a person. if shes really your friend, and you genuinely care about her. I would suggest you forget about her weight. We live in such a vain materialistic world. It's disgusting, and It makes me sick. Did you become her friend because she was skinny? didn't think so.