great question, healingme4me

Sounds like he's BPD with no therapy to help control his meltdowns. I mean, I've done the thing with the printer, myself....I've learned not to yell at someone trying to help but I do sometimes get tense in my tone of voice. I'm working on that.

I've been in relationships before I was diagnosed and they didn't and I didn't understand what the hell was going on with me. Mostly I'd leave them because I knew it was only a matter of time before they got fed up with me and left me.

If you love the guy, try to gently convince him to get some help for his moods....if he refuses, then as much as I hate to say it (after wearing the shoes on my feet) I agree with tinyrabbit.

Leave.