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Originally Posted by Mactastic
I'm so glad this helps! Holding my T's hand would send my transference through the roof, lol!
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It's very interesting to me that the part who was in love with my T seems to have settled down lately. I love her, but don't feel "in love", though I don't trust that part not to come back when she looks a certain way.
Holding her hand never triggered any transference reaction except for feeling safe, settled, and nice inside. My T used to think it was causing those other kinds of feelings, but I kept insisting that it did not. Her touching my knees is unacceptable to me, though. Once she did that when we did EMDR a couple of years ago, and I had to tell her that it felt "too good". Holding her hand doesn't feel "too good"; it feels just right!