You nailed it. That is exactly how I feel about the way my life has gone since my BP came roaring out of the sub-clinical arena and rocked my world. There are so many things I can no longer do or be, and that frustrates me beyond belief. So what I do is just try to focus on the things I CAN do, and let that be enough for me. I haven't quite gotten there yet---I'm still testing my limits---but I'm working on it.