a change in him would be ideal. we have been together alomst 6 years, so like i said his behavior is nothing new. i have ask many times for him to get help. he's actually been on a medicine that suppose to help with his anxiety/ mood swings, but here within the last few years its slowly declined in effectivness. i have told him he needs to explain that to his dr and get his pill dosage changed/ upped but he refuses he says he doesn't want to take pills anymore and wants to go the natural route....but its clearly not working and he needs something to help