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I think it depends on what you value. If you value not being overweight and are attracted to those that are not overweight - romantically then that is your preference. I would like to think you still like "who that person is" and that it is
reciprocated. I know of those that are attracted to thin people and those that are attracted to a "full" body. Just be who you are. If you have a desire to lose weight - do it..but do it for yourself not for someone else - if that someone else goes away...
do you gain that weight back???
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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