Skittles, I also believe things happen for a reason, even this thread and the activity on it. I believe that since you felt it was a sign, that it is. But please allow for a different interpretation of the sign, not just what you want it to be. If your relationship won't last while you are apart, then it isn't an ideal relationship, imo. You haven't explained your god nor your type of faith in this, and that is ok, but leaves me out of the continued support in this forum for this, now.

You know I wish you well, and you can PM me any time