Rayne Selene, my husband is really into his hobbies and projects too - - to the point where I feel ignored or passed over sometimes. But, as another poster alluded to, I had a glimpse of this before we were married. It's not like he became this way overnight. I guess we spent so little time together during our courtship that I had no idea the amount of time he would put into his hobbies instead of wanting to do stuff with me.