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Old May 22, 2014, 03:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Rayne Selene View Post
Yes, it's true. The friend that said that has been a mutual friend of ours for years and would have no reason to lie. We were already planning to wait until after I graduate, but apparently he's saying he wants to wait until after we both get jobs and etc, etc...could be more than another 5 or 6 years. I think he wants to wait until we both "make it", but what if that never happens? Isn't it better to struggle together? I think he proposed to me not because he's ready but because he wanted to give me what I wanted. I don't want him doing things because it's what I want...I want him doing things because it's what he wants too, does that make sense?
I still think a long and serious talk with your fiance directly needs to happen. I would not hesitate to mention how you had to hear this stuff from a friend, instead of him. If he felt that way, why couldn't he have told you that himself?