hi des some men do cry it aint part of the western culture though a lot of men suppress their tears with alcohol, work ,aggression, i have wept buckets over losses and my depression i think they are better out but not sure if they are healing i still stuggle with mental health issues would i be worse if i had not cried? don't know .when i cry i feel helpless, not a great situation to be in if i'm not in good company or a safe space.there is an idea that the chemicals in tears are different depending on what you cry about i guess crying is a response to a stimulus--- big subject!!