hi. female... first time i changed they put me with dude. i never had consider it. he wasnt much older than me soooo obviously i would develop feelings for him and therapy wouldnt have the purpose it should. i tend to present myself in more favorable way before a male therapist and i joke a lot, cant cry.... so yeeep i told the sexy dude what would probb happen. he laughed. then i called them to change. end of story