bancha dear......*sigh*

I believe that for whatever reason, this man has some deep seeded issues that he needs to work on. It sounds like he might be in the process of that, but has not gotten to a point where he is comfortable with his thoughts, his feelings and his actions.

Should you wait for him?? That is only an answer that you can come up with yourself. But, like Wants, I have a problem with the fact that you had to take on another personality in order to get information out of him that you could not get as yourself. That to me is NOT a sign of a healthy relationship.

If you pushed him into a relationship, there could be all kinds of problems that could arise if he is not yet ready for such a thing. There would be lots of anger and frustration and who would end up taking the brunt of all that????

My advice, for what it's worth is to let him be. Let him work on himself and you should continue with your life. If, when he feels he's ready for a meaningful relationship and comes looking for you and you are available...then it was meant to be. Otherwise, you will continually be on this roller coaster of which you will tire of quickly.

I wish you well dear!

Hugssss
J