I have to add to this...as thankful as I was to have these ladies in my life...when the marriages did not work out - that was awful as well. I held on to these ladies. I told my dad...just because you do not love them anymore.. I still do and cannot let go...and they did not let go of me. Not trying to scare you... I am being real.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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