I always used to say that - "you dont have to call me back." I was trying to deny my need, not sure if to myself or the other person. Like its a magic saying that undoes everything you just said, like you dont really mean it if the other person is gonna get mad. But its more appropriate to our families than to our ts. If its considered aporopriate at all. It could come across as controlling, when i think i see it more as grovelling almost. Its kinda insulting to my t now, i think.