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Originally Posted by sweepy62
Im stubborn asking for help, I guess I need growth in this area, I never saw this as a "test" do you think she sees it as a test? I m so use to my old t calling even when I said I dont need you.
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I would suspect she probably does to an extent. It isn't particularly hard to recognize. I am sure if you just simply asked for what you need, she would respond with what you want.
You are still testing her to see if she'll be like your old T. She can see that. Can you allow her to be who SHE is rather than her having to be like your old T? Just pick up the phone and ask for what you need. It would be a learning experience about self-advocacy and trust.