I don't reject help outright just stay on their behinds to make sure family is properly taken care of especially in a hospital/nursing home situation. Until they prove themselves to me they are nothing and don't deserve my respect. It's not the dx'ing that's the problem most of the time in my family's case...it's the care after they are admitted that irks the crap outta me. Like leaving my grandma tonight sitting on her poopy diaper for a few minutes for computer work. Really????