Tomholly11.........I agree you got out of it alive, with all your skin on, and most of your own emotions in tact. All to the good. Stay with it. She definately has some serious serious mental health issues.....but word to the wise...after about 6 of the 34 'red flags' I would have run like the wind. I commend you, your staying power.

Now stay with your decision to end it. Much less dangerous, and definately a healthier way to go.